The King’s Reward: Unlocking God’s Blessing Through a Good Wife

A Call to Men of the Universe

Men of the universe, I stand before you as a bullhorn, proclaiming a truth long ignored,
misunderstood, and twisted.

Dear Men,

On this Valentine’s Day, I feel compelled to share a heartfelt message with you. As a woman who knows many incredible women excelling in every facet of their lives, yet yearning for meaningful relationships, I believe it’s time to reflect on the roles we play in each other’s lives.

In the beginning, it was declared, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him” (Genesis 2:18). This “helpmeet” is not a subordinate but a partner, equal and essential in the journey of life. Together, we are designed to complement and uplift each other, creating harmonious and fulfilling unions.

However, in recent times, the bond of marriage has been tested. Divorce rates have soared, and many relationships have withered. Yet, there is hope. Studies have shown that in places like Maine, divorce rates have fallen by 30% over the past decade, suggesting that with conscious effort, we can reverse this trend.

Gentlemen, I urge you to embrace your roles as leaders, partners, and supporters. Seek out the remarkable women who are ready to stand by your side as equals. Nurture these relationships with love, respect, and commitment. By doing so, we can foster unions that not only enrich our lives but also set a positive example for future generations.

God’s original blessing was meant to flow abundantly to you through the gift of a good wife. However, many have been deceived into thinking that having multiple women makes them richer in experience, happier in life, and greater in status. That belief is a lie, a trap, and a path to emptiness.

The reality is this: A good woman is a treasure, a divine key to unlocking God’s favor. The Bible makes this clear: “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” — Proverbs 18:22

Men, many of you are missing out on the abundant blessings that come from finding, cherishing, and committing to one great woman. This insightful article will challenge your mindset, shift your perspective, and reveal God’s truth about love, marriage, and divine favor.

We have to Restore Divine Order in our Relationships

The enemy wants division between men and women. He wants confusion, broken
homes, and disconnected hearts. But God’s plan is for unity, love, and divine
partnerships.
Men, you must step into your divine role. Women, you must embrace your worth.
Together, both must honor God’s design for relationships.

The Myth of More Women, More Happiness

Society tells men that the more women they have, the greater their success. But this
couldn’t be further from God’s design.

Many of our women are single not because they
don’t desire love, but because men have been misled into thinking commitment is a trap
rather than a blessing.

The Trap of Temporary Pleasures
Men chase multiple women, thinking they are gaining something but losing the most
valuable treasure of all—a divine partnership that brings prosperity, peace, and purpose.

The Bible warns against this path:
“Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes. For the
prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread, and the adulteress preys upon your very life.” —
Proverbs 6:25-26
A man who constantly seeks new women will never build a solid foundation. A king does
not keep jumping from woman to woman—he finds his queen and builds an empire with
her.

The True Measure of a Woman – Is to Judge her by her Vibe, Not Just Type

Many men have been conditioned to judge a woman based on her looks alone. While
physical attraction is important, a woman’s true value lies in her character, energy, and
spirit

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The Power of Frequency and Energy

Instead of asking, “Is she, my type?” men should ask, “What kind of energy does she bring
into my life?” A woman of character radiates peace, love, and wisdom. She inspires a man
to be his best self.
The Bible tells us:
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be
praised.” — Proverbs 31:30

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A man who learns to judge by a woman’s frequency rather than just her appearance will find
himself connected to a woman who will elevate him rather than drain him.

The Role of Women – Beauty, Strength, and Divine Purpose

While men must learn to look beyond mere appearance, women must also understand the
power of self-care. A woman who values herself and presents herself well reflects her self-respect and confidence. Prioritizing self-care and maintaining one’s appearance can enhance self-esteem and contribute to a fulfilling partnership. While physical attraction is a component of many relationships, it’s essential to balance this with emotional connection, mutual respect, and understanding. Both partners should feel valued and appreciated for who they are, fostering a deeper and more meaningful bond.

Taking Care of the Temple

The body is a temple, and maintaining physical health is a way of honoring God and one’s
partner. A well-kept woman shows discipline, self-respect, and dedication, attractive qualities to a godly man.

“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you
have received from God? You are not your own.” — 1 Corinthians 6:19
A man who values a woman’s energy will also appreciate a woman who takes good care of
herself inside and out.

The Role of Men – Protecting, Providing, and Leading with Love

Men, you were never meant to be absent from the lives of women. God designed you to be
leaders, protectors, and providers, not just financially but emotionally and spiritually as
well.
Treating Women Like Queens
A true king does not abuse, neglect, or mistreat his queen. He leads with strength, but also
with love, wisdom, and kindness.

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” —
Ephesians 5:25
When men return to their God-given roles, women will feel safe to embrace their femininity
fully, and society as a whole will experience healing.

As we celebrate this Valentine’s Day, let’s cherish the love we have and strive to build deeper, more meaningful connections. Remember, nurturing our relationships requires continuous effort, understanding, and appreciation.

I hope this post resonated with you and provided valuable insights. Please leave a comment below to share your thoughts and feedback. Wishing you all a Happy Valentine’s Day!

With heartfelt sincerity,

Kendra 🙂